Me on Monday

 Just like that, we are in June.  Half way through the year!

Something good happened last week.  My new car arrived 😁 The right model and the right colour and the right number of doors!  

So this week starts with a trip to see our financial advisor.  The joys of being of pensionable age eh?  Asking him to oversee our accounts back in 2011 was the best thing we did, his advice has been invaluable over the years.  A morning in his office will be time well spent.

Coco is hoping to have a better week this week.  She had to have a small procedure to remove a lump from the top of her head last week.  It was a bit like having a skin tag removed for a human and she had to have a crucial part of her fringe shaved so she's looking a little different!  Then we had Daisy the dachshund come to stay for a couple of days while our daughter went to visit her in-laws. So it wasn't the best of times for Coco, she doesn't like sharing us with other dogs!  

I've got my pre-holiday hair cut booked in for Tuesday so hopefully I won't be copying Coco with the dodgy fringe.  I think I've also reached the pre-holiday stage where I should probably check that my swimming costumes still fit, I don't want to get overseas and then find I don't have anything to wear around the pool!                 

I had an email last week that got me thinking and I'm wondering if it's something they are sending to people all over the UK.  It was entitled 'Are you ready for anything?' and it was from the Local Resilience Forum of our county constabulary.  It was a survey to see how prepared you are in case of an emergency event.  Being of a suspicious nature, I wondered if they know something we don't know!  It also made me buy a litre of bottled water, a dozen AA batteries and a dozen AAA batteries when I went to the shops. Just in case ... 😳   I'm not sure a litre of water would last us long but it felt like I was a tiny bit more prepared!

I need to find a new project for my 'knit and natter' get together on Friday, I could continue with my ongoing blanket, but it's got to the stage now where it's heavy and hot on your lap when you are working on it.  I need something smaller!  

So I'm off to trawl through online crochet pattern websites, wish me luck!  Hope you have a good week!

                                                                                             

#WBOYC in May

 

The months are galloping along aren't they? I can't believe it's time to join in with the other Deb's World in Australia and do a brief recap on the last four weeks.

Watching and Reading

The Essex Millionaire Murders caught my interest as we live about 45 miles away from where it happened.  I can't believe I hadn't heard about it at the time but oh my goodness, what an evil mind their killer had.

The series Malpractice was really good, as was The Game which changed my opinion of the actor Robson Green! We just started watching The Chelsea Detective which I think is going to be good.  

Code of Silence with Rose Ayling-Ellis is very good and makes you really appreciate how difficult life must be to be deaf, and how useful it is to have good lip reading skills.

Still watching Race Across the World and still in awe of how they find their way around with no internet access and absolutely no knowledge of the language.

Following the election of the new pope we were inspired to watch Conclave!

I started the month reading the third in the series of books by Richard Osman, The Bullet that Missed.  They are very easy reads. I also enjoyed Philly Barker Investigates by Joanne Tracey and will be downloading the second book in the series for my holiday in Italy next month.

Eating

We have a kind of tradition that at the beginning of summer we go to our friends who live around the corner to us and they cook a paella.  So after a week of wall to wall sunshine, it was decided that the time had come!

We had friends come to us for dinner. I decided to make a tried and tested chilli con carne because I knew I could make that in advance and have a more relaxed evening with me slaving away in the kitchen while everyone else sat outside with a pre dinner glass of wine.

I met up with friends for lunch a few times, it's good to keep in touch with people I used to work with and on one occasion I met up with someone I was at school with and that was a very long time ago!

Fish and chips at the beach, it always tastes so much nicer doesn't it?

Self Care

Still keeping moving with my pilates and zumba, some weeks easier than others to find the motivation first thing on a Monday morning! My bottom also made an appearance on the teacher’s instagram page 😳

I took a break from the blanket I'm crocheting and started a new, quick project for my 'knit and natter' get together. It was nice to relax and work on something smaller using springlike colours.

Days out

We had four days in Norfolk, which was glorious.

Now to condense all that down to 1 Second Everyday

My book list for May

 I'm not sure that I can call this a 'list' when there is only one title to include!  I don't know why I haven't read so much this month but here is the one book I finished

I downloaded this book as I wanted something nice and easy to read when we went away to Norfolk.  In the end I didn't get as much reading done as I expected as that Norfolk sea air made me so tired in the evenings I barely read a chapter a night.

This is the third in the Thursday Murder Club series and you do really need to have read the previous books to know the ins and outs of the characters who live Coopers Chase retirement home.  Although I had read the earlier books, it took me a couple of chapters to remember all the characteristics and personalities!  

The Thursday Murder Club are a group of elderly residents who try to solve cold cases and they are about to investigate the disappearance of a local news reporter who is assumed to have died after her car drove off the edge of a cliff ten years ago.  She was on the cusp of discovering the whereabouts of a large quantity of money involved in a fraud case and there were several suspects who may have wanted to stop her enquiries.  Although there are many clues to suggest she was murdered, her body has never been found and neither has the money.

Then, out of the blue, Elizabeth is contacted by someone from her past with the demand that either she kills someone on their behalf, or she will be killed herself.  

You do, of course, need to suspend belief that such things could happen to someone living in a retirement home but once the story becomes more intricate (and bearing in mind Elizabeth's past life of espionage!) you become caught up in the twists and turns of the story.  

I enjoyed reading this, and will definitely be reading the next in the series to see what crime they get involved in next. 

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My next book was a little different.  There is a series of Philly Barker books and I downloaded the first book in the hope that if I enjoyed it, there were more to come in the future!

Philly Barker is an antique dealer and has bought a 'lot' at a local auction mainly due to her eye being drawn to an old painting of Whitby.  Along with the painting was a box of odds and ends which she does not look at properly until she returns home.  Little does she know that her successful bid has included some items that have caught the attention of someone else who is desperate to obtain them.  Upon closer investigation into the painting and wooden box she finds documents which lead her to believe that these items should never have been taken to auction and that someone will be desperate to have them back.

After her dealership is broken into, Philly decides that there is more to this than meets the eye and that there must be something of value in her possession.  She joins forces with a local policeman to see if she can solve the mystery before anyone else is hurt.

This is a nice, cosy mystery.  Likeable characters and an intriguing storyline. I shall definitely be downloading the next book in the series!

A weekend away

 Our planned weekend away coincided beautifully with the weather turning gorgeous here - it makes such a difference!  It was still a bit breezy on the coast but if you found a sheltered spot is was 'scorchio'

We headed up the Norfolk coastline to a town called Wells Next The Sea.  The photo above shows a sculpture of The Lifeboat Horse which is on a sandbank in the harbour when the tide is out, and submerged up to his head at high tide.  It's made from steel and whisky barrels and is a tribute to the horse that used to pull the town's lifeboat to the sea.  Wells is such a lovely place and so well positioned for going out and about.  Not that we planned to go far!  One of the nicest things about that area is that there are no chains of coffee shops or burger bars.  Every shop is independently owned and oh boy, the bakeries are amazing.

The beach at Wells is such a long, wide bay with literally hundreds of beach huts in between the trees and the sand.  Coco absolutely loved it there and was constantly rolling over and over in the sand.  Just a little further along is Holkham beach which is famed for its sand which seems to go on for miles and miles.

We also went to Walsingham which is a destination for pilgrims and has been called 'England's Nazareth'. It is also home to a tea shop which sells the most amazing lunches!  

All in all, we had a wonderfully relaxing weekend, Coco rolled in every bit of beach she could and behaved herself impeccably when we took her to the pub for a meal. It's definitely an area we will return to in the future.

My book list for April

 The first book I read this month was our online book club’s choice

Beth lives on a family farm owned by her husband Frank's family. Their lives are pretty settled until one day a dog runs into their field and savagely attacks their sheep.  The dog is out of control and Beth's brother in law, Jimmy, instinctively shoots it to save their flock.  This act will cause unimaginable devastation to the family as the owner of the dog is Gabriel, Beth's first love who has moved back into the area with his young son.  

The chapters are split between the 1950s and 1960s and we become aware that there has been a death and one of the brothers is accused of murdering the other.  

The characters are well written and one can sense the dilemma that Beth finds herself in, loving her kind and honest husband but still feeling the attraction of first love.  She arranges to help look after Gabriel's son, Leo, and feels a deep affinity to him as he reminds her so much of the son she and Frank lost in a tragic farming accident a few years earlier.  While you cannot condone how this storyline unfolds, you can feel how she is torn between the two loves of her life.  Her brother in law Jimmy is unhappy at how much time Beth spends at Gabriel's home and suspects there is more to the relationship than everyone believes.  Although Jimmy comes across as a man on the verge of alcoholism and the unpredictability that it involves, the author invites you to sympathise with him and you can sense his loyalty to the family is behind much of his behaviour.

So, was it murder or just a terrible accident?  Whose finger was on the trigger before the fatal shot?  Can the family survive however the trial ends? 

My second book was The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry

Harold Fry receives a letter from someone he used to work with, telling him that they were in a hospice and did not have long to live.  Harold immediately writes a reply and sets off to send it, leaving his wife upstairs doing her normal housework.

Somewhere between home and the post box Harold makes a decision to personally deliver the letter and sets off on a walk.  The 'slight' problem is that Harold lives on the south coast of England and the hospice is in Berwick on Tweed, not far from the Scottish border.  Over 500 miles away.  Harold is not wearing any appropriate clothing or footwear for such a huge journey. Nor has he taken his mobile phone.   He has set out on a whim with the belief that if he can keep walking, Queenie will stay alive until he reaches her.

Harold meets many different people along the way, obtaining help in unlikely places, meanwhile his wife is left at home waiting for a call from phone boxes along the way to let her know that he is safe.  Both of them have time to reflect on their family life in ways they would never have done before, stuck in the rut of routine.

Whilst the story is a little unbelievable as I don't think someone in their 60s could suddenly walk that distance with no proper walking shoes or equipment, and at times a little drawn out, I did enjoy reading it and I understand it has now been made into a film.

Me on Monday

 We’ve woken up to glorious sunshine again today and it looks like it’ll stay  for the rest of the week 😊

It was a weekend of flowers and flour for me. We visited some beautiful bluebell woods on Saturday. I love this time of year!

The photo doesn’t really do it justice, it really was a carpet of blue and absolutely gorgeous. Perfect dog walking country.

Then on Sunday I went to a cooking academy for a class in how to make pasta

It was in a lovely location, about half an hour from me, in a courtyard filled with sculptures and individual studios for potters, artists and a bakery.  I have no photos as I was either busy making or eating pasta! Everyone left their phones in a different room and it was great to see everyone totally engrossed in the class with no interruptions. We made a basic dough and turned it into ravioli, spaghetti and tagliatelle. We also made three different sauces, carbonara,arrabiata and Alfredo, then it was lunchtime and we sampled everything we had made. Such a fun day. 

Today is normal routine after the Easter break, with pilates to start with.  My arms are aching from all that kneading of the pasta dough so I'm hoping she will go easy on us!  I'm hoping we will go to Cambridge one day this week as I have a few birthday presents to buy and it's nice to look round some of the little individual shops there.

No other firm plans for the days ahead but as the weather forecast is good I'm planning to just take each day as it comes and do a little bit more work in the garden.  Or maybe sitting in the garden watching Paul do the work 😉

#WBOYC in April

 

This month seems to have been quite a gentle progression into spring.  We've had some lovely weather and the gardens are looking colourful and full of new growth.  So, how did I spend my days?

Watching and reading

The new series of Grace still has as many twists and turns and red herrings to keep your brain challenged.  I still enjoy watching Interior Design Masters, and can usually guess which person will be sent home after an untasteful project. 

Then onto a couple of travel inspired shows. The Pilgrimage is back, with celebrities taking on a pilgrimage route.  It is interesting to see how people of different faiths and opinions gel over a challenging route. This time they are in Austria and the scenery and architecture is absolutely beautiful. The new series of Race Across the World has just started and already you are seeing signs of a little discontent between some of the couples.  To be left without mobile phones or credit cards at the great wall of China and having to find your way to the finish point in India is not something I would be any good at!  

I've just finished watching Feud and had not realised that making an kitchen extension on the back of your house could cause so much trouble (or deaths). 

I'll be sharing my April reading in a post next week.  I've only read a couple of books but they were both good in very different ways.

Eating

We couldn't find a day over the Easter weekend that everyone was free so I ended up cooking family meals two days in a row.  Traditional roast lamb with lots of veggies on Easter Sunday and a pork and cider casserole with Jersey Royal new potatoes and veggies on Easter Monday.  I love it when it is the season for Jersey Royals, I think they just taste so much nicer than any other new potatoes.

We had an Indian takeaway with friends one evening and it was absolutely delicious.  We tried a restaurant that we hadn't used for a while and we will definitely be using them again from now on.  For once we did not over order.  It's so tempting to go through the menu and choose lots of starters and then can't eat the main!  Do you do that?  I could make a meal out of the samosas, onion bhajis, chicken chat, poppadoms and dips!

One of my 'knit and natter' ladies invited us to a party at the local golf club.  It was to celebrate her 70th birthday and it was such a nice evening.  It was a sit down meal; the food was delicious and it was fun to dance the night away.

Self Care

I'm still doing pilates and zumba, although there have been a couple of weeks off due to the Easter break.  I'd like to say that I did some exercising at home to compensate but we all know that isn't true!  First Zumba class back was yesterday and it was so good to get out and dance.

There's also been self care in the form of a haircut and one which I was apprehensive about - a dental check up.  Fortunately I came out of each salon/clinic with a smile on my face!

Can you consider booking a holiday 'self care'?  I think so - and am happy to know that this month we finally decided on a destination and we have a trip to Italy planned for June 😎

Days out

As the weather has been so lovely, we have been taking Coco to different places for her walks and it's been really nice to change the routine of staying close to home.  Even though we have a country park on our doorstep, it's good to go elsewhere sometimes.

I have a day out planned for this Sunday.  For my birthday, my son and daughter bought me a ticket for a pasta making class at a cookery school near to them.  I have never made my own pasta and I think it could get quite messy but I'm looking forward to learning something new!  

So all that is left now is to share 1 Second Everyday for this month and invite you to pop over to Deb's World  to read about her Awesome April in Australia!